No, not all future moms are first time mothers. There are such things as second time around moms or more than the usual number of rounds moms. For mothers who are pregnant, sometime life can just be plain frustrating and stressful. So, why not treat the mommy-to-be with a mother’s day out?
Gather a group of close girlfriends and plan out with them a mother’s day out for another. Arrange with the friends to look for baby sitters for the kids so that you can have a great time together without having to face worries or be disturbed by kids who want your attention at every single turn.
You can have a day out in one house and have some activities to relax like say a day with hired beauticians to do some hair and makeup makeovers for your group. Also, why not ask a masseuse or two to massage the stresses away from the tense muscles. Or, if that is not to your liking, go to a house where there is a Jacuzzi and simply laze the day away.
Most of the preparations will have to do with the kids so hire one, two or even three baby sitters to control the kids of the group in one house. Make ahead of time some spaghetti, hamburgers, marshmallows, sodas, juices and desserts of choice for the kids and babysitters to enjoy at home. Ask the babysitters to make up some fun and games to entertain the kids to make it easier for them to stay in one area.
You and your friends however, can just enjoy the time away from the kids and renew the friendship all over again.
If you want to have a spa day, then prepare in the house where the spa activities are to be done way ahead of time. Again, simple foods which you girls could bring pot luck. If too lazy, make plans for lunch, tea and dinner in certain restaurants. The point is to relax, not get too hassled over details of the day out.
How do you surprise the harassed mommy-to-be? Why lure her into a web of white and fun lies, that’s how. Kidnap her, surprise her. Bring all the kids to her home, complete with all the foods and the baby sitters. Then, just lug her along, tie her up, gag her, blind fold her, and just reassure her that all the kids would be taken care of and that they would be safe.
It is also best to inform the dads or the husbands and boyfriends. They may get surprised when they miss the kids for the day. They too can have their daddy’s day out if they so wish, but let them plan that out on their own. They can just grab the daddy-to-be off somewhere in the land of men and they can have fun as well.